It is what it is......

 

"We all have to start with ourselves. It is time to walk the talk. Take the journey of making very difficult decisions. Start removing things from your life that are not filling your cup and adding things that bring joy in to your life."

~Lisa Hammon

 

"It is what it is......"

I never understood that saying until a few weeks ago. Mark says it all the time. I always thought it was so annoying...until lately... and it just to came to light. It was an "aha" moment. When everything becomes clear and all you thought you knew just disappears and you're left with the thought that all the thinking, discussing and analyzing is not going to change some things that you've know all along. It's taken me a very long time to see things and people as they really are. Wow, it really is like a clear day....I wish I would have known years ago what I know now, but then again... I guess I did. I wouldn't have accepted it before. I was just wishing for something better....this is the something better.

 

A friend ask me the other day if I was still blogging. I told her yes, but I just hadn't posted anything for awhile...about March 14 to be exact. And that was something I had written back in February. I just couldn't think past all that has happened this last month. It's been interesting and enlightening ....strange and beautiful....... I'm still not sure what it all means. I'm just following answers to prayers. Some of the fog is lifting. It's that clear day I've been searching for....It's not what I thought at all....time to move on...time for change... I suppose .....bittersweet...but- it is what it is.... I feel like maybe for the first time I have landed on planet earth! Looking around and seeing where I am in this life. This is probably one of those blogs that is not going to make since unless this has happened to you. But maybe since I am writing my thoughts, such as they are, something new will come into my head to write about.  
  

So many good sayings and quotes fell in my lap during the last month. I love good quotes. Some I used as my status on facebook...I wanted to share them in here also. They sum up better than anything all that happened to me this last month:

 

"Your happiness and peace results from uncovering what is true for you and what truly works and nobody can uncover those things for you. You alone must assume the risks, dive in, and take your chances. A life well lived is a life of taking chances and hanging out with people who help you grow."

Dick Warn

 

"You can pray but sometimes God just wants you to take care of it yourself.  You can sit and listen to the music but sometimes you must get up and dance. You can complain but sometimes you need to do whatever it takes to correct something. You can believe but sometimes you must take action, make a plan, change your ways, add to,take from, build up, tear down, walk away, come back, climb, fall, get up, lie down, move ahead or move on."

- Bob Perks

 

"Oh my cup is full, it’s come full circle. "

~ And Furthermore

Judi Dench